Do you think you're in an unhealthy relationship?Controlling parents/partner/friends/siblings?Do you feel like you have little or no control over your life?Does someone else in your life make all the decisions for you?
These are some of the obvious reasons of having a controlling person in your life.Are you waiting for someone or something to come and save you from this bad bad world?Well,hate to break it to you,but superheroes don't exist! So,how do you deal with it?There are some ways i can think of ..Now,how do i know about this again ? Yeah you might want to ask me that..When it comes to being controlled or manipulated ,i have a life-long experience of being controlled and manipulated by someone.So here's how you can deal with this..
NEVER GIVE UP.EVER! :Sometimes when you are pushed too much, it can feel very hard that you want to give up.But never give up.Fight back(i don't mean the literal fighting) because it's your life and you can only make it right.
BE CONFIDENT OF YOURSELF:You are an individual who can make your own decisions.You need to believe in yourself before you prove this to others.Be yourself.Be confident in yourself and try to have a positive way of thinking.
YOU NEED TO TALK:Crying,running or hiding away from your problems is not going to help.You have to talk with the person about the issue you have.You never know,the person might not even know that they are controlling you.Speak up.Tell them how you feel.
LEARN TO SAY NO:You don't have to agree with someone on everything.You have you own mind and therefore,your own thoughts and views.Don't be afraid to be who you are.If you're being forced to do something against your will,say no.
TAKE ADVISE:Talk about this to an adult you are comfortable with.They might have solutions or suggestions to give.
BE STRONG:Try to motivate yourself even if you don't have any support from anyone.Do things you love.Try to make yourself happy.Be positive-minded.Don't lose hope.
“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
- Oscar Wilde
These are some of the obvious reasons of having a controlling person in your life.Are you waiting for someone or something to come and save you from this bad bad world?Well,hate to break it to you,but superheroes don't exist! So,how do you deal with it?There are some ways i can think of ..Now,how do i know about this again ? Yeah you might want to ask me that..When it comes to being controlled or manipulated ,i have a life-long experience of being controlled and manipulated by someone.So here's how you can deal with this..
NEVER GIVE UP.EVER! :Sometimes when you are pushed too much, it can feel very hard that you want to give up.But never give up.Fight back(i don't mean the literal fighting) because it's your life and you can only make it right.
BE CONFIDENT OF YOURSELF:You are an individual who can make your own decisions.You need to believe in yourself before you prove this to others.Be yourself.Be confident in yourself and try to have a positive way of thinking.
YOU NEED TO TALK:Crying,running or hiding away from your problems is not going to help.You have to talk with the person about the issue you have.You never know,the person might not even know that they are controlling you.Speak up.Tell them how you feel.
LEARN TO SAY NO:You don't have to agree with someone on everything.You have you own mind and therefore,your own thoughts and views.Don't be afraid to be who you are.If you're being forced to do something against your will,say no.
TAKE ADVISE:Talk about this to an adult you are comfortable with.They might have solutions or suggestions to give.
BE STRONG:Try to motivate yourself even if you don't have any support from anyone.Do things you love.Try to make yourself happy.Be positive-minded.Don't lose hope.
“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
- Oscar Wilde
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